"The first draft is just you telling yourself the story." – Terry Pratchett

Businesses

From my first job in sales to owning a bar to my first technology company where, in 1985 I won Georgia's FastTec 50 award, I've always been fascinated by the challenges of business. My two current projects, TapToReport and GetToKnowMe both feed my two greatest passions, keeping people safe and helping people find healthy romantic relationships. You can learn more about each project below.

  • TapToReport

  • Imagine an app that gives teachers a one button call for help or can send an alert to place a school on lockdown. When minutes matter, getting notifications out as fast as humanly possible saves lives.
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  • GetToKnowMe

  • Years ago I consulted with several of the big dating app companies and I thought there had to be something between the dating app and the constant cycling through coffee dates and ghosting and everything else.
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Books

I never thought I'd own a bar, never thought I'd be a single dad, never thought I'd write a single line of code, so imagine my surprise when I found myself compiling notes for a book, talking with friends about those notes, having friends criticize the concept but moving forward anyway to produce The Man Puzzle. Now, life has again thrown a few twists my way and the result will be two new books, Letters From Prison and The Violin. Both stories are near and dear to my heart and writing them has been incredibly cathartic and has made me question many of my life’s choices along with teaching me a few lessons.

  • The Man Puzzle

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  • For years I have been "that guy." You know the one, the guy women always turn to with their "why did my man do ___" questions, and the one who patiently...
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  • Letters From Prison

  • What happens when you discover a son or daughter you never knew you had? How would you proceed forward with the relationship? How would you feel if that relationship were cut short before you ever had a chance to meet?
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  • The Violin

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  • Know that old expression: "Be careful what you wish for?" What happens when what you wish for is right in the palm of your hands and then, suddenly and without warning
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My Short Stories

Occasionally I write a short story and post it here. Often times these are random memories from my past, sometimes it's a fragment of a book that doesn't serve the story but is still worth telling... or really just an itch I need to get out of my brain. Other times, these are just random observations or a piece of poetry. Here are the most recent stories:

What I Should Have Learned From My Son’s Death

It’s funny how some people can learn lessons early and quickly while others spend a lifetime of making the same mistake over and over again. It’s not until we get much older and look back that we can see the pattern, examine the choices we’ve made and dig into why we made them.…

Losing My Religion

My First Church Brantwood Baptist Church in Dayton, Ohio was just down the road from our house on Wanetta Ave. In my mind, I can still walk there and I can clearly remember the steps leading up the vestibule, the parking lot, the Sunday School classes in the basement, and the…

Slinging Mud

muddy, washed out road
They were just leaving their 5th wedding together. At the other weddings, they had merely been guests but at this one, she had been a bridesmaid and he had been a groomsman. They were both quite close to the newly married couple and stood glowing as they watched their friends…

I Cheated and I Have No Regrets

The Colonnade
Katie is my daughter. She is one of many wonderful results of my affair with her mom, Amanda. While neither I, her mom, or other family members had ever kept the affair a secret, we had limited the conversation to age-appropriate answers. I was uninvited from a daughter's…

What? Poetry?

Okay, I'll be the first to admit that I'm no Wadsworth or Longfellow but every once in a while the words come out. Here are the most recent poems my friends have enjoyed:

Going Home

Going Home I sat quietly on the back patio listening to the children playWhen I last saw them they were in…

Who Is She?

She’s every ray of sunshine that warms the earth She’s every flower that’s made someone smile She’s every drop of rain…

Missing Soul

Man longing for another soul
I was born a million years ago and my heart has sought but one soul In the mornings I feel her hair flow softly across…

May Your Love

Candle of Hope
On Monday 12/18/2023, I received a letter from my sister-in-law Jamie. She'd been sorting through "the box" of family…

returned coordinates: 39.03947,-77.49181

testing to see if it's already in the DB